Prevent Child Abuse North Dakota

Tuesday, November 25, 2014

10 Quotes + 3 Signs of Hope about Sex Trafficking

by Karen Van Fossan, Communications Director

Sex traffickers in North Dakota have been ahead of us for years. Advocacy organizations like PCAND have had our hands full working to promote healthy families and prevent the hardships, like child abuse and neglect, which we already understand. The recent increase in sex trafficking in our state – following the oil boom but not restricted to it – has taken us by storm. That’s why the recent Human Trafficking Summit in Bismarck was, simply put, such a big deal.

Like others from founding organizations of the FUSE coalition, I worked the registration table and got to meet many of the 200 attendees first hand – survivors, advocates, law enforcement, service providers, faith leaders, educators, and more, from across North Dakota and adjoining tribal nations. I was also encouraged to see many state legislators, Attorney General Wayne Stenehjem, U.S. Attorney Tim Purdon, and staffers from U.S. Senator Heidi Heitkamp’s office.

At the Summit, the idea was to pool our knowledge and also learn from those in other parts of the country who’ve been at this work a while. Here are 10 quotes, in the order I heard them, that continue to speak to me:

1. “The same individuals who are being trafficked in the west [of North Dakota] are being trafficked in the east. They’re on a circuit.”
– Jennifer Klemetsrud Puhl, Assistant U.S. Attorney, Fargo

2. “In our agency, we have seen two to three women who have been trafficked from other countries. They fear deportation.”
– Darianne Johnson, executive director of the Domestic Violence and Rape Crisis Center, Dickinson

3. “These guys [traffickers] are experts. These guys are as smart at their jobs as we are, except they don’t have rules to follow.”
– Rob Fontenot, special agent with the ND Bureau of Criminal Investigation

4. “To pimps, girls are a commodity. They trade them frequently.”
– Rob Fontenot

5. “We know that traffickers will hang out near homeless shelters for youth, looking for victims.”
– Mark Heinert, LSW, Homeless Programs Manager for Youthworks

6. “These are absolutely intelligent businessmen who are in the business of trafficking.”
– Windie Lazenko, member of the National Survivor Network, founder and executive director of 4her North Dakota

7. “A lot of men who purchased sex in the Bakken for the first time who never thought they would – they did so because they were traumatized themselves.”
– Windie Lazenko

8. “‘Prostitute’ is a word you want to remove from your vocabulary. At Breaking Free, we believe prostitution is sexual violence. The same tactics of power and control are used.”
– Joy Friedman, survivor of sex trafficking, Breaking Free Women’s Program Liaison to the St. Paul Police/Vice Unit and FBI

9. “If you ask a victim of sex trafficking about her pimp, she’ll say she doesn’t have one. To her, he’s her boo – her boyfriend. As a pimp, his job is to become whatever it is that’s missing in your life.”
– Joy Friedman

10. “Of the sex trafficking survivors at Breaking Free, 75% were physically abused as children; 75-85% were victims of child sexual abuse, incest, or rape.”
– Joy Friedman

While these quotes are not generally uplifting, I reflect on the Summit with a sense of hope – for three reasons:

1. Crimes like sex trafficking happen when we don’t have the infrastructure, the systems, to prevent them. When we come together as a diverse coalition, we build that infrastructure. As Steve Wilborn, member of the Uniform Law Commission, insisted, “The work that FUSE has done is the most important thing to get good legislation passed in North Dakota.”

2. We can only address problems like sex trafficking when we understand them. Thanks to the Summit, 200+ movers and shakers in North Dakota now have a deeper understanding.

3. Sex trafficking, I am learning, is not so different from other forms of abuse that we do know how to address. We are not so far behind.

Meanwhile, I am saddened to know of the untold children, women, and men who are victims of sex trafficking in North Dakota, as well as the untold adults who capitalize on and create this victimization.

But we are catching up.

~*~

If you think you, or someone you know, might be caught in trafficking of any kind, call 1-888-373-7888 or text INFO or HELP to BeFree (233733):





Karen Van Fossan, Communications Director for PCAND, directs our faith-based initiatives while completing her M.Div. through United Theological Seminary of the Twin Cities.

Wednesday, November 12, 2014

Building Babies' Brains

by Mylinda Ogundipe, Community Development Manager

“You are the bows from which your children as living arrows are sent forth.”

This quote from the poet Kahlil Gibran – shared by Dr. Sean Brotherson at the Building Babies’ Brains Summit in October – really stood out for me. It was such a moving analogy because it shows that parents have the potential to ensure that their children achieve much more than they did; and in fact, every generation can ensure this for their children.

Held in Bismarck, the Summit began with Dr. Joan Connell presenting a 3-minute video called Brain Hero, which explained how both positive and adverse experiences have long term effects on a child’s brain.

Dr. Andy Garner, of the American Academy of Pediatrics, followed this video with a nuts and bolts view of the Adverse Childhood Experiences study and its implications for early brain development. Dr. Garner continually stressed the benefits of programs like home visiting as well as developmental screening. As the manager of the Early Childhood Comprehensive Systems (ECCS) grant funded program, I was especially pleased to hear him tout the importance of social-emotional developmental screening, as the goal of ECCS is to improve and enhance the early childhood screening system for children aged birth to three.

Many interesting ideas came up as part of the discussion portion of the Summit; these ideas included:

  • Reduce the stigma of parenting classes and home visitation services.
  • Use interns, students, nurses, etc., to do screening in waiting rooms.
  • Deliver services at times when parents are available.

It was encouraging to see so many people, from different parts of the same country, all working to help children and their families. The Building Babies’ Brains Summit was very informational as well as motivational.  



Mylinda Ogundipe, Community Development Manager, coordinates the Early Childhood Comprehensive Systems grant. 


The Building Babies Brains Summit took place on October 17, 2014, and was co-hosted by Prevent Child Abuse North Dakota and the North Dakota Chapter of the American Academy of Pediatrics.