Prevent Child Abuse North Dakota

Thursday, February 26, 2015

Healthy Children, Healthy Families – Our Journey Continues

By Ronya Hoblit, PCAND Intern

The 14TH Annual ND Indian Child Welfare & Wellness Conference, sponsored by the Native American Training Institute (NATI), took place on February 18-20, 2015, in Mandan, ND. Here is Ronya Hoblit's account.
 
Ronya Hoblit and grandchild
"In every conceivable manner, the family is the link to our past, the bridge to our future." -- Alex Haley
 
For three days, a contingent from across the state, representing federal, tribal, state, county, and private providers, met in Mandan.  Their common goal was to share personal experience and formal research on what works when serving children and families. Each morning included an opening prayer and a flag song, and the ND Indian Child Welfare Proclamation was read. 
 
Darius Sparks
The three keynote speakers were varied in their emphasis. The first was about the personal experiences of Darius Sparks within the foster care organization and as an adoptee and how those events shaped his life.
 
The second, Relationships Matter by Dr. Tami De Coteau, spoke to the importance of positive interaction with children in the first months and years. Their interpersonal, physical, and intellectual development depends on it. 
 
Linda Thompson
On day three, the keynote was titled A Hopeful Tomorrow by Linda Thompson, the Director of the First Nations Women’s Alliance. Her message acknowledged the range of care that is happening regarding the children of ND and that although there is the component of domestic violence, there is also a great deal  of “hope and positive activity happening in and around Indian Country” (NATI Conference booklet, 2015).   

Other speakers to the general assembly included Judge William Thorne who presented on the basics of Indian Child Welfare Act (ICWA). Lenny Hayes talked about mental health issues (i.e., sexual assault, historical trauma, foster care, adoption) within the Two Spirit/LGBTQ community. Kathy Deserly introduced the new Capacity Building Center for Tribes. The conference ended with a wrap-up session led by Cheryl Demmert Fairbanks, Esq. 

Breakout session tracks for each day were as follows: Child Welfare, Culture, Mental Health & Wellness, and Juvenile Justice, with one session addressing ethics in Social Work. Focus areas were human trafficking, healing, transition, community, family, marriage, incarceration, success, addressing the justice system, training, strategies from micro to macro.
 
Diversity Tipi by Ronya Hoblit
The presentation utilizing the Diversity Tipi Model, which I was honored to offer, was grounded in the research of Maslow and Erikson and the writings of Joseph Marshall III regarding the twelve Lakota values described in “The Lakota Way: Stories and Lessons for Living.” The tipi encompasses all living beings, Mother Earth, air, water, the Sun, moon and stars, and the consistent presence of values (tipi poles) used to support the structure of the tipi. It provided representation of the traditional, cultural, and spiritual structure.

On Thursday evening, Supaman (Apsaalooke) was in the house. His inspirational message was punctuated by jokes that, by now, must have been retold in several middle schools in our area. Dressed in his fancy dance regalia, he used his hip hop skills to talk to the young people while still engaging older members of the audience. It was clear, however, that his main message was for the youth. He engaged with them and left them with words of encouragement to live a drug and alcohol free life. 
 
"Supaman not only raps, but he's funny, too! Before and during some of his songs he cracked jokes and made the whole crowd laugh. He called on some volunteers to come on stage and help him write a new song. I think I can speak for all of my fellow volunteers when I say he made us feel very comfortable and did not feel judged. I would have liked to get a CD, but he didn't have any!" -- Michaela Alexander

The 2015 Darice Baker Clark Memorial Scholarship Award was presented to Ina Olson. It is an award given by her family to commemorate the good work done in the field of social work by Ms. Baker Clark and to honor the recipient for being dedicated and proactive as a social worker in North Dakota. 
 
NATI is in its 20th year of existence and partnership with the ND DHS Children and Family Services, ND Indian Affairs Commission, Casey Family Programs, and the four ND tribal welfare agencies to address their common training needs and to enhance their capacity to improve outcomes for Native children and families they serve. 

 
Many thanks to Sandra Bercier,
dedicated conference organizer
As the conference ended, I knew that despite all the things that can go terribly wrong in the raising and care of children, there are many more ways to win the day. Hope lies in the micro and macro worlds. Every person attending this conference represents so many more who could not attend and they are all on the side of the children. Our motivation to advocate remains as we are inspired by these words from Albert Schweitzer: "Learn from yesterday, live for today, hope for tomorrow."

Ronya Hoblit, MIS, is a social work student at Minot State University and has been interning at PCAND since January. She can be reached at intern @ pcand.org. 

Monday, February 23, 2015

Spirit Lake Home Visiting Program Surpasses Target Enrollment!

By Allyson Bartlett, Spirit Lake Home Visiting Program Supervisor

Embarking on a new journey can be exciting, yet have moments of uneasiness. For me, I was extremely ecstatic when I was asked by a former supervisor to join her team to implement a new home visiting program on Spirit Lake Nation. I accepted the position in November 2014. I soon discovered feelings of uneasiness because I never imagined that our program would grow so fast in such a short period of time.
As with any new program, I realized there will be periods of “growing” pains, and I also recognize that we should look at our work as a progress in motion. Spirit Lake Home Visiting Program is currently feeling the “growing” pains, but I am enthused by the growing amount of families showing interest in the program.
We are pleased to announce that we have officially outgrown the target number of families to serve!
We are now at a stage where we are investigating the possibility of expanding to serve more families or exploring the option of placing families interested in the program on a waiting list. I feel that all of this would not have been possible, had I not had a great team to assist with the development of our program. I am enthusiastic about our team’s progress, and I look forward to future endeavors!
For more information about the Spirit Lake Visiting Program, contact Allyson Bartlett at abartlett @ spiritlakehv.com or 701.766.1200.
 

Monday, February 2, 2015

Caution: These Pictures May Inspire You!

When we unite for early childhood, we really unite. Last Friday, at Uniting for Early Childhood Day...

Children gathered...


Say, "Cheeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeese!"

They were curious about life...

"How does that work?"


They created feelings faces...

"My name is Taylor. I am feeling happy."

They read stories...

"I love me..."


They had their faces painted...

"I love it."


They won the goldfish guessing game...

Congratulations to Angela, Danielle, and Jackie Wescott!

 
And they saw legislators in action...
 
After getting her face painted, Representative Hawken (R-Fargo ) talks with Allison Mahoney of PCAND.

Senator Tim Mathern (D-Fargo) pauses after face paint.

Thanks to all the legislators who stopped -- with or without face paint!

 
At the end of the day, we were pretty sure the kids had almost as much fun as we did...

Ronya Hoblit and Karen Van Fossan, both of PCAND

Almost...!

Karen Van Fossan painting faces


We'd like to express our sincere gratitude to all who joined us, particularly First Lady Betsy Dalrymple, who wore a "Head Start Works" button and thanked each of us for our work.
 
When you have a chance, please let these early childhood organizations know how much you appreciate their presence in our world -- and at Uniting for Early Childhood Day!
 
BECEP (Bismarck Early Childhood Education Program)
 
May these inspiring photos strengthen you in your commitment to young children, their gifts, and their needs.
 

Posted by Karen Van Fossan, PCAND Communications Director

Photo credits: Mylinda Ogundipe, Allison Carlson, and Karen Van Fossan of PCAND; Shawna Croaker of Children's Consultation Network

Friday, January 23, 2015

What Do Brad Pitt's Mom and Allison Mahoney Have in Common? Reflections on a Home Visitation Training.

Allison Mahoney, Home Visitation Program Manager

I may not be a professional artist (and have been told not to quit my day job), but sometimes when you are on information overload, there is only one way to put it all together – and that is through good, old arts and crafts. 
 
Ramona Danielson (Program Evaluator) and Allison Mahoney (Program Manager)
 
I had the opportunity to attend a one-week, “Parents As Teachers 0-3” Home Visiting Model training in St. Louis MO. 
 
Parents as Teachers National Center in St. Louis
 
As an advocate and, more importantly, as a mother I cannot agree more with the following two sentiments:
 
·         Children do not come with directions.
·         No two children are the same.
 
It is these two key pieces of knowledge that drive my desire someday to offer every new mother and family the support of a trained home visitor to share family well-being, parenting behaviors, and child development, in ensuring children are able to reach their full potential.
 
Which brings me back to arts and crafts!
 

Infinite amounts of knowledge and information were provided on topic areas spanning this age group.  This picture is a way we, along with the help of co-trainees, could present our vision in one quick snapshot.
 
Along the path from the home to the lake are hurdles that at-risk families may have to overcome – finance, domestic violence, and crisis. With the support of their home visitor, families overcome these hurdles.
 
The reflection in the pond is a smiling parent and child. The words written in the pond are tools the home visitor is able to provide in strengthening the family – parental resilience, social connections, and more.
 
And behind them is a swing in a tree, because so much learning and brain development happens at this age through play both independently but also through parental interaction.
 
My biggest take away, one which I will continue to push myself on, is to reduce screen time, get off the I-pads and I-phones, and interact with your children!
 
Oh, and supporting and seeing the benefits trained home visitors provide is priceless! 
 
Not to mention Brad Pitt’s mother was a trained home visitor in Missouri for many years. J
 
 
Allison Mahoney is Program Manager for North Dakota's Home Visitation Project, which is funded by the federal (MIECHV) Maternal, Infant, and Early Childhood Home Visiting project. She can be reached at 701.223.9052 or allisonm @ pcand.org.

Thursday, January 15, 2015

Legislative Neophyte

Ronya Hoblit, Minot State University Social Work Intern
 
It was not as if it was my first visit to the capitol, so there was a decent level of familiarity walking into the front door. Prior to 2015 and my internship with PCAND, I had accompanied students from Sitting Bull College to events in the rotunda.  
 
But on Monday, January 12, my perspective was transformed. As I waited to meet my boss for the first time, I watched the people milling about in the lobby. It was clear that this was more than a regular meet and greet. The civility was that of human beings who knew that not everyone was an ally. But beyond that it was evident, as well, that anyone could ultimately be a helpmate in supporting one form or another of legislation passed. Visible civility is what it shall be deemed.
   
One of the other perks was when I happened upon a former colleague, a friend, a classmate, or a familiar name and face, in person. Suddenly, in the sea of dark suits, neutral colored ties, and sweaters would be an island filled with the gentle breeze and sunlight of amity.
 
I was alternately star struck, lost, ecstatic to be there, exhibiting false bravado, and verklempt (in a good way) at how life's choices had set me in this place, at this time, to be able to be the proponent of prevention (not just fixing the effects) of child abuse. I will let Albert Schweitzer sum it up for this neophyte:
 
"I don't know what your destiny will be, but one thing I know: the only ones among you who will be really happy are those who will have sought and found how to serve."
 
 
Ronya Hoblit's first day as our social work intern began at the North Dakota capitol. She's an asset to our work already. Welcome, Ronya!

Tuesday, January 6, 2015

2014: Change!

Karen Van Fossan, Communications Director 

What a year.  

The headlines from 2014 tell of a world – and state – in a time of much transition. From the Black Lives Matter campaign, to falling gas prices, to renewing relations with Cuba, to public outcry about family violence in the lives of sports idols, to the passage of an anti-trafficking code by Three Affiliated Tribes – 2014 brought dissent, debate, and change.  

With your attention and support, PCAND has participated in 2014’s spirit of action and change. We were sad to say good-bye to Tim Hathaway, who stepped down as our executive director, while we have been honored to welcome Sandy Tibke into this new role.  

As you know, that’s not all that happened for us in 2014! Thanks to many collaborators and friends, we… 

·       provided free, voluntary home visits for prenatal mothers and families of young children from Turtle Mountain, Spirit Lake, and Devils Lake. 

·       co-founded FUSE (a Force to end hUman Sexual Exploitation) and co-sponsored North Dakota’s first summit on sex trafficking. 

·       helped TEAM PCAND launch its youth running team, TEAM KAIZEN. 

·       expanded the Early Childhood Comprehensive Systems project toward expansion of early childhood developmental screening and development of seamless systems of care for young children. 

·       gave Caring Community Awards to five caring communities in North Dakota. 

·       distributed the “Period of PURPLE Crying” DVD to families and hospitals around North Dakota. 

·       provided Care for Kids and Nurturing Healthy Sexual Development Workshops to educators and service providers. 

·       honored Child Abuse Prevention Month with creative, multi-generational projects in every region of North Dakota. 

·       co-hosted conferences for faith-based communities, the 3rd Annual Home Visitation Conference, the Spirit Lake Children’s Services Symposium, and the Building Babies’ Brains Summit: Translating Developmental Science into Lifelong Health. 

·       co-created North Dakota’s 4-point Vision for North Dakota's Families, a public project to nurture families – and end child abuse and neglect in our state. 
 
As we enjoy the first (extremely cold!) days of 2015, we look forward to nourishing the roots of the good work begun over the past few years. With your support, we will continue to strive toward the vision of safety, nurture, and peace for 100% of North Dakota’s children.   

May 2015 bring you and your loved ones a healthy balance between stability and change!

Karen Van Fossan, PCAND's Communications Director, can be reached at karenvan @ pcand.org or 701.223.9052.
 

Tuesday, November 25, 2014

10 Quotes + 3 Signs of Hope about Sex Trafficking

by Karen Van Fossan, Communications Director

Sex traffickers in North Dakota have been ahead of us for years. Advocacy organizations like PCAND have had our hands full working to promote healthy families and prevent the hardships, like child abuse and neglect, which we already understand. The recent increase in sex trafficking in our state – following the oil boom but not restricted to it – has taken us by storm. That’s why the recent Human Trafficking Summit in Bismarck was, simply put, such a big deal.

Like others from founding organizations of the FUSE coalition, I worked the registration table and got to meet many of the 200 attendees first hand – survivors, advocates, law enforcement, service providers, faith leaders, educators, and more, from across North Dakota and adjoining tribal nations. I was also encouraged to see many state legislators, Attorney General Wayne Stenehjem, U.S. Attorney Tim Purdon, and staffers from U.S. Senator Heidi Heitkamp’s office.

At the Summit, the idea was to pool our knowledge and also learn from those in other parts of the country who’ve been at this work a while. Here are 10 quotes, in the order I heard them, that continue to speak to me:

1. “The same individuals who are being trafficked in the west [of North Dakota] are being trafficked in the east. They’re on a circuit.”
– Jennifer Klemetsrud Puhl, Assistant U.S. Attorney, Fargo

2. “In our agency, we have seen two to three women who have been trafficked from other countries. They fear deportation.”
– Darianne Johnson, executive director of the Domestic Violence and Rape Crisis Center, Dickinson

3. “These guys [traffickers] are experts. These guys are as smart at their jobs as we are, except they don’t have rules to follow.”
– Rob Fontenot, special agent with the ND Bureau of Criminal Investigation

4. “To pimps, girls are a commodity. They trade them frequently.”
– Rob Fontenot

5. “We know that traffickers will hang out near homeless shelters for youth, looking for victims.”
– Mark Heinert, LSW, Homeless Programs Manager for Youthworks

6. “These are absolutely intelligent businessmen who are in the business of trafficking.”
– Windie Lazenko, member of the National Survivor Network, founder and executive director of 4her North Dakota

7. “A lot of men who purchased sex in the Bakken for the first time who never thought they would – they did so because they were traumatized themselves.”
– Windie Lazenko

8. “‘Prostitute’ is a word you want to remove from your vocabulary. At Breaking Free, we believe prostitution is sexual violence. The same tactics of power and control are used.”
– Joy Friedman, survivor of sex trafficking, Breaking Free Women’s Program Liaison to the St. Paul Police/Vice Unit and FBI

9. “If you ask a victim of sex trafficking about her pimp, she’ll say she doesn’t have one. To her, he’s her boo – her boyfriend. As a pimp, his job is to become whatever it is that’s missing in your life.”
– Joy Friedman

10. “Of the sex trafficking survivors at Breaking Free, 75% were physically abused as children; 75-85% were victims of child sexual abuse, incest, or rape.”
– Joy Friedman

While these quotes are not generally uplifting, I reflect on the Summit with a sense of hope – for three reasons:

1. Crimes like sex trafficking happen when we don’t have the infrastructure, the systems, to prevent them. When we come together as a diverse coalition, we build that infrastructure. As Steve Wilborn, member of the Uniform Law Commission, insisted, “The work that FUSE has done is the most important thing to get good legislation passed in North Dakota.”

2. We can only address problems like sex trafficking when we understand them. Thanks to the Summit, 200+ movers and shakers in North Dakota now have a deeper understanding.

3. Sex trafficking, I am learning, is not so different from other forms of abuse that we do know how to address. We are not so far behind.

Meanwhile, I am saddened to know of the untold children, women, and men who are victims of sex trafficking in North Dakota, as well as the untold adults who capitalize on and create this victimization.

But we are catching up.

~*~

If you think you, or someone you know, might be caught in trafficking of any kind, call 1-888-373-7888 or text INFO or HELP to BeFree (233733):





Karen Van Fossan, Communications Director for PCAND, directs our faith-based initiatives while completing her M.Div. through United Theological Seminary of the Twin Cities.